If Your Partner Has These 5 Traits, They *Probably* Have High Emotional Intelligence
People with high EI have these 5 things in common.
Honestly, high emotional intelligence is a superpower.
I don’t care how attractive, funny, or clever someone is — if they lack emotional intelligence it’s a deal-breaker for me.
We’re emotional creatures, which means that our emotions influence every single decision we make, every single action we take. If someone can’t recognize, understand, and regulate their emotions, problems are bound to arise in their relationships.
As Oscar Wilde once wrote,
“I don’t want to be at the mercy of my emotions. I want to use them, to enjoy them, and to dominate them.”
It’s important to mention that there’s no one-fits-all definition of emotional intelligence and that there can be numerous indicators that someone has high emotional intelligence.
However, the five traits mentioned below are among the most common ones people with high EI share; plus, they are all simple signs that you can secretly notice every day and use them to assess whether your partner (or a person you’re interested in) has an abundance of emotional intelligence.
