I’m Dating Several People and It’s Complicated

But how else do you meet the right one?

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I’m not sure if I am finally ready to meet someone, or the Saint Anthony (finding love) candle my friend gave me is kicking into gear. But it’s been an adventure since January.

I’ve had a little more interest than normal.

Is it because I’m putting ‘I’m open to meet someone finally’ vibes out there?

Or is it the universe?

Not sure.

But it’s been fun yet complicated. I don’t want to jump into a relationship. I want to date. But dating several guys at once isn’t necessarily easy.

First, there’s my ‘Not so serious guy.’

We have been honest with one another from the beginning. We don’t want anything from one another. We want to date and do our own thing. We want to be friends no matter what happens.

But I’ve definitely got an emotional connection with him.

He’s the first man that I don’t see myself with but that I don’t want to walk away from either. I’m not sure why. I think it’s because we do have genuine feelings even if it leans toward friendship.

I like the way he puts it.