Is Female Sexuality Really That Complicated?

By keeping certain subjects taboo, we keep outdated myths alive.

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If we are in the third wave of feminism then why is it so difficult to talk about female sexuality? Should the most basic functioning of our bodies be off-limits in normal conversations? I am not saying you can’t find daring articles pushing the boundaries and exploring female sexuality….but are women talking to one another about sex? And are they telling each other the truth? In a world where 80% of women admit to faking orgasms, can we honestly say we know anything about sex?

We live in a society where actually talking about sex is not very popular. We are simply not open to sharing our experience, even with our own partners. It is a vulnerable conversation. Uncomfortable.

Great Conversation Makes for Great Sex

Studies show that couples who argue peacefully actually have better relationships. But why? Because by getting your emotions out in the open you have the chance to resolve your feelings. The quickest way to kill a relationship is to let things stew. You cannot hold it all in. It leads to resentment which will come out, one way or another.

And couples who disagree peacefully feel that they are on the same level. Both voices…