Is It Time To Ditch The Dating Etiquette Book?

In my experience, romance would be easier if we skipped the rules.

Ellen McRae
Mar 3 · 6 min read
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It’s 2021 and as a romantic population, we’re over it.

‘Don’t share too much of yourself’

The Rule:

‘Don’t share what you want from dating’

The Rule:

‘Don’t share your hopes for the future’

The Rule:

‘Don’t express your real feelings’

The Rule:

‘Don’t contact too early’

The Rule:

‘Don’t seem too eager’

The Rule:

There should be only one rule

Hello, Love

Love changes us. Love makes us human.

Ellen McRae

Written by

Relationships. Drama. Gossip. Innuendo. Bad Dates. Failures. Learning about life/business/love the hard way// https://ellenjellymcrae.com/

Hello, Love

Love changes us. Love makes us human.

Ellen McRae

Written by

Relationships. Drama. Gossip. Innuendo. Bad Dates. Failures. Learning about life/business/love the hard way// https://ellenjellymcrae.com/

Hello, Love

Love changes us. Love makes us human.

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