Know This Relationship Gamechanger About Your Wife

Do you ever feel like you and your wife are from different planets?

The Good Men Project
Hello, Love

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By Stuart Motola

She shuts down on me,” my client Rick says to me.

He’s not used to that. In his work as a tech CEO, he consistently has the attention and focus of others.

He’s used to his words being heard and people being open to him.

“Sometimes I can’t figure out what I did. Why’s she like that?”

Does your wife sometimes just close off to you?

“It’s very confusing,” Rick says. “It’s like I live in two alternate realities. One at home and one at work.”

I listen. He says more.

“She’s moody,” he says. “One day she’s a little open, another day completely closed off. I just can’t figure it out.”

He doesn’t know if it’s sustainable for him. But he has kids and a family and wants to keep it all intact.

Do you struggle to figure out what sets off your wife?

He says a cliché to me that tells me more about him than his wife, but I get it. I’ve felt it myself.

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Hello, Love

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