Ladies, Stop Judging Men for Their Careers

“I just want a man who’s ambitious.”

Ariana E.
Hello, Love

--

Photo by Emil Kalibradov on Unsplash

In society, women are judged based on their physical attractiveness.

In most corners of the world, this is the reality. Attractiveness in the dating sphere tends to center around a woman’s looks, her age (or perceived fertility), and her previous sexual experience.

A woman who is young, beautiful, has no children, and is sexually inexperienced tends to be seen as more “attractive” than a woman who is older, overweight, has children from previous relationships, and has had many sexual partners.

Not that a woman in the first camp is guaranteed love and attention, nor is the latter banned from it entirely.

This is just the state of things in the modern dating world.

Men — on the other hand — are judged based on their financial assets and ability to provide.

A man doesn’t have to be young or conventionally attractive — if he’s got money. The adage goes:

“Any man can be six feet tall if he stands on his wallet.”

--

--

Ariana E.
Hello, Love

I said what I said. Counter-cultural opinions on sex, love, and dating.