Never Ignore These 4 Red Flags

The relationship is doomed.

Anton Lex
Hello, Love

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They try to control your mind.

“You will never find someone who will love you the way I love you.”

This is exactly how kidnappers groom their victims.

Do you know about the placebo effect? It’s the reason why people act drunk when they are given a non-alcoholic beverage.

The game is over once you start believing.

I remember watching a documentary a few years back about a woman who was abducted as a young girl. She spent many days in the predator’s backyard. It had a low fence. She could have easily climbed over.

In the documentary, the interviewer asked her, “Why didn’t you just leave?”

At that point, the woman’s brain was already rewired.

She believed the things her kidnapper told her. In her mind, she thought everyone outside that backyard was going to get her. That’s why she didn’t leave. She thought it was now the man and her versus the world.

They badmouth their exes.

“All my exes were crazy.”

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