Not Getting Any Second Dates? Here’s Why
And how to improve your odds.
There’s a common lament among men in the dating world.
“I really like this girl. We went out last week and the date went so well. I thought we really hit it off and had a profound connection. We had an amazing time, and the chemistry was through the roof. I haven’t heard from her. I don’t think she wants anything to do with me. What should I do?”
Dude hit the nail on the head because two weeks later it was obvious that first date would be the last. It’s a clear signal to forget all about it and move on to more interested parties.
But there are a lot of guys who still want to wait for the girl to make the next move after a first date. They want her to be the one to call/text him back and ask for a second date.
Straight up: if you want to see this girl again, ask her on a second date.
If you’re interested in her and felt that strong of a connection, you’re not going to run the risk of her getting away. Hell, ask her at the end of the first date if you feel like she’s on the same page as you.
Even if you don’t jump on it then, but you’re feeling good about her interest and the possibilities and have reached out asking for a…
