Seven Signs They’re a Narcissist

Walk away and save yourself.

L.A. Strucke
Hello, Love

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Think you’re involved with a narcissist? Many people do. If you search the internet you will think everyone is a narcissist. Even though many people have narcissistic traits, true narcissists only make up .5 percent — a small percentage of the population. And 75% of them are men.

Here are seven signs that you’ve entered the frightening world of a narcissist.

1. They are in love with themselves — not you.

Everything they do is to benefit themselves. You are just a means to an end. If they need your help for whatever reason, they will ring up your phone. When you aren’t needed for something, you will not hear from them for days. They won’t care about your feelings. They’ll expect you to deal with it.

Their favorite topic of conversation is themselves. Nothing matters to them more than their career and hobbies. They will only pretend to be interested in your life to keep you dangling on a string. After all, they may need you for something in the future.

2. You will always be one of many.

They have numerous admirers around them, and when you’re not giving them enough attention, they will quickly replace you with someone else. They will…

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L.A. Strucke
Hello, Love

Top Writer, Songwriter. Published in Chicken Soup for the Soul, Highlights for Children and Guideposts. Editor of The Creative Project.