4 Signs That Your Wife Might Be Cheating

Sammy G
Hello, Love
Published in
5 min readMar 17, 2023
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Most relationship advisors who write this type of topic are copy pasting from some website and rewrite it.

They are fake and try to prove they know it all.

I am writing this story from my personal experience. My wife cheated on me and I will write about those warning signs which made me doubtful about her.

Here are the 4 warning signs that may make you doubt about your wife / girlfriend. And in my view you should always give priority to your intuition.

If you feel uncomfortable with any gesture or sudden change in her behavior, please go ahead and validate it.

Now here are 4 signs which should make you doubtful about her.

Protective of Phone :

It is simple and straight forward that your wife will keep contact with her secret lover if she is in love with someone.

She will make every attempt to lock her phone by some new password or pattern lock. Also suddenly her whatsapp and snapchats will be locked by some 3rd party application.

wife is cheating in phone
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Tell me, why on earth a person suddenly trying to put all kind of security on messaging application.

What is she trying to hide from you ?

Please do not tell me, it is for privacy. I’ll not buy that.

If she suddenly put extra protection around her messaging app, please be 100% sure she is hiding something.

Now whether it is about her secret love, that you need to find out.

Taking some phone calls alone :

There will be some phone calls which she will prefer to take alone in a room. Or she might prefer to roam around in the garden or terrace and casually speaking to someone.

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Please remember she will not take all calls separately. She will suddenly find some alibi to leave common space and take few calls in terrace or separate room.

Please be very careful when such things happen. This is a very classical sign of cheating your spouse.

Spending time alone :

Spending time alone is not a signal of cheating or adultery. The sign is suddenly change in her behavior to prefer more timing outside of home. She will find ways to spend time alone.

Spending time alone to contact with secret lover
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For example, she will often late from office for half an hour. You might think half an hour is not a big deal.

How can someone meet somebody else only for half an hour.

Please remember it is not about meeting someone for half an hour.

Probably she wants to spend half an hour alone to call her lover or doing a video call with him.

Any sudden change of behavior should warrant some vigilance.

Conscious about how she looks :

This is obvious, when your relationship matures do you care everyday about how you looks ?

Particularly do you pay attention whether you look good or smell good for your spouse.

Generally we do not pay attention when the relationship becomes a habit.

But when you fall in love, remember how excited you are.

You take care about your looks, you try to smell well as a man. You try to groom your beard better. Isn’t it ?

Same for men and women.

If you suddenly notice your wife is started using makeups pretty often, doing hair more often and overall much more image conscious, please be suspicious.

spending more time on make up could be a sign of adultery
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This is a classical sign of a woman, looking for a new guy.

Women know very well their strongest weapon is their body and sexuality.

And when they try to make it more attractive all of sudden, that is a strong signature of attracting a new male partner.

It’s mind game end of the day. And it is not surprising because women are animal too.

Any animal with their instinct know well — what is their strength and what is the weakness of opposite sex ?

Moral of the story :

End of the day, look out for sudden behavioral change of your girl friend or wife. And if your intuition tells you, something is wrong. Be 99% assured, it is actually wrong.

Now question is how you will subjectively confirm she is secretly cheating you.

I will talk about few Litmus Test in my next article to find out whether your wife is cheating you or not.

Keep in touch !

P.S. — Please do not consider me as a relationship advisor. Please do not think I am another writer who writes tons of article in relationship niche.

Many of these so called relationship writers never faced issues like cheated by a partner in their whole life.

As a result, they spend their whole life preaching not so cool relationship advice.

And ladies and girls, please excuse me. I might be rude in some places. But please understand I am just objective to my point.

I am writing here for males. But women can read my articles.

My point of views are predominantly male specific, because I first-hand handled a difficult marriage when my wife cheated me.

I know what it means and how to handle it. So, my analysis could be pretty raw and objective.

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Sammy G
Hello, Love

Techie, Golfer, Father. Betrayed by the woman I loved most. Learning about human psychology. Rebuilding my failed marriage.