Spotting The Micro Behaviors Of A Toxic Relationship

How to spot it’s toxic before the red flags start waving.

Annie Tanasugarn, PhD
Oct 11 · 9 min read
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“People with personality disorders are very good at turning everyone they meet into the same person they already met. They do that, I think, by exchanging very subtle covert reinforcements.” ~Dr. Jordan B. Peterson

Red Flags and Warning Signs

Recognizing Micro Behaviors

Other micro-behaviors are a byproduct of the relationship itself, and can include:

Recognizing Your Value

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Psychologist. Behavior Analyst. Helping warriors recognize their inner strength & empowering them with a little badassery. #INFJ. Seeker of the perfect latte.

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Love changes us. Love makes us human.

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