The Biggest Mistake Men Make With Women They Want to Pursue

You’re your own worst enemy.

Paul Marsh
Hello, Love

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Picture this: you’re the type of male women want to pursue them (or at least you are in your own imagination). You’re tall, dark (or at least evenly tanned), and handsome.

You have an amazing job that pays a great salary, know how to care for your loved ones, spend quality time with quality friends, and take great care of yourself physically.

You’re an avid reader of anything and everything self-improvement related, partake in yoga to keep your body limber, understand the importance of Feng shui in your dwelling place, and have a heart for children.

All of these intangibles land you your first date with a woman like the one pictured above. You’re excited, ecstatic even, and plan to put your best foot forward.

After texting back and forth for quite some time, you finally pick a date, time, and place for the initial meeting — 7pm on a Friday at a restaurant known for its ambience and romantic vibes.

A haircut and lineup are essential, as is picking out an outfit that says, “Hey, I like you, and I want you to like me too.” With that out of the way, you move onto taking a thorough shower, cleaning every nook and cranny after your late afternoon workout.

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Paul Marsh
Hello, Love

Native of Philly now living in the Midwest. Writing has been part of my life for 26 years. Avid reader. Fitness nut. Hopeful romantic. Superb cook. Word nerd.