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The One Thing Men Crave More Than Sex

And women hold the key.

5 min readJul 9, 2025

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Let’s address the elephant in the room: yes, men love sex.

This is not breaking news. If you’ve spent five minutes on the internet, watched a rom-com, or been in a relationship longer than the time it takes to cook pasta, you already know that. But here’s the twist no one’s telling you:

There is something men crave even more than sex.

And no, it’s not bacon. Or football. Or limited edition sneakers.

Ready?

It’s respect.

I know, I know — some of you just rolled your eyes so hard they nearly fell out. Respect? Seriously? That sounds like something you say in a motivational speech or on an HR PowerPoint slide.

But stick with me.

Because once I explain this, you’ll never look at your man — or any man — the same way again.

Let Me Tell You About Kevin

Kevin is a good guy. He’s your classic “fixes things without being asked, pays attention when you mention your favorite snack, doesn’t always leave his socks in the living room” kind of boyfriend.

But Kevin was moody.

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Leah Njoki
Leah Njoki

Written by Leah Njoki

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