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The Good Men Project

Jun 25

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This Guy Makes Your Abuser Look Good

Thomas Fiffer explains how abuse doesn’t always fit the stereotypes, and that is why it is sometimes difficult to recognize and act on.

Photo by Sara Kurfeß on Unsplash

By Thomas Fiffer

A while back I wrote a blog post called “Call It What It Is.” I write a lot about dysfunctional relationships, and I wanted to educate…

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