Top 10 Green Flags in a Partner
We have heard about Red Flags. But what about Green Flags?
We are always talking about the negatives and red flags to look out for. I thought I would list and elaborate on some green flags for anyone trying to fix or move on from a relationship that did not work. Or simply good things to to look out for in a person so as to solidify the relationship. Remember that lack of some green flags are not necessarily red flags and it’s your relationship, so you would know what’s better. Also someone can hold many if not all of these green flags and still have red all over him. So yes, these are some green flags — but just as a guide to look out for and appreciate. So let’s get to them:
- Respecting your “No”. If you say no to something, does he respect your decision? If he does, that’s a big green flag. An even bigger green flag is actually reminding you “we don’t have to if you don’t want to” and explicitly saying he would be okay whatever decision you make. No guilt trapping.This is a sign that you could tell him literally anything — without him having to like them in the first place. Isn’t that great?
- Holding you sacred. You are a red line…