TOP 10 Hard Rules for Having an Affair

What I’ve learned the hard way.

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These are the top 10 hard rules of having an affair.

1. It’s an affair.

Don’t expect them to run away with you.
Don’t get your hopes up.

Life has a way of thwarting dreams.

2. Don’t expect them to tell you the truth.

If they lie to their spouse, they will also lie to you. This game isn’t for the weak of heart. You gotta sift out lies on top of more lies. No one is telling the truth in adultery land.

3. They can ghost you without reason at any time.

One of the saddest parts of this “lifestyle” is the sudden loss.
“He’s not responding.”
“She deleted her account.”
“I haven’t heard from them.”

You won’t know what you did wrong. Maybe you did nothing at all. A close call with a suspicious spouse put them over the edge. Having the affair “rug” being pulled out from under you is a constant threat.

4. Don’t put in more time and energy than they are willing to match.