Unlocking the Female Perspective: What Women Really Think of Your Dating Profile

Ciaran Callam
Hello, Love
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6 min readAug 21, 2023

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So, most guys who use dating apps don’t get the results they want. They either get no matches, match with low-quality women and are ghosted after two messages, or can’t get dates. If that’s you, this guide will illuminate where you’re going wrong.

However, if you don’t care for reading, watch the following video. It features me sitting with a female friend to review men’s Tinder profiles and is a highly illuminating watch. You’ll hear first-hand what women think when they scan your profile.

Anyway, let’s get started.

1 – Having a dumb mindset for online dating

You probably don’t realise that you’re not just the man in your pictures. You’re the entire Goddamn pics. You’re the lightning, camera angles, locations, image quality, and person/people in your dating app pictures. I mean that.

When a woman looks at your photos, she’s subconsciously influenced by all the above to instinctively decide to swipe left or right…

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Ciaran Callam
Hello, Love

6X top writer who helps men create the dating lives of their dreams. I’m also an author of female empowerment novels. I guess I’m an enigma.