What Color Is Your Love? A New Map for Seeking a Lasting Relationship

I long for a partner who can take my hand and lead me on a spiritual adventure. In fact, it’s essential that they can.

The Good Men Project
Hello, Love

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By John McElhenney

Soul. Parachute. Heart. Love.

I may have been going about this dating rebirth in the wrong way. Perhaps what we are hyper-focused on: looks, money, smile, career, fitness, is important, but not the most important feature of a lasting relationship. I have written a lot about how good looks and/or good sex can be a misdirection. I’ve begun to explore the concept of JOY as the basis for my next adventure into a long-term partnership. Today, walking in Manhattan I began arriving at a new layer of understanding.

The density of beautiful people in New York’s Central Park on a Saturday morning is heavenly. As I was strolling along minding my own mind I noticed my thoughts wandering to a new idea. That idea bloomed, in my mind, into a new system of understanding. And in my own grandiosity, a new series of books. Starting with this first title using “love” as the denominator rather than soul or heart. I want it to be direct and to the point. Here’s the idea.

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The Good Men Project
Hello, Love

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