What to Do (or Not) on a First Date

If you’re hoping for a second one.

Jose Luis Ontanon Nunez
Hello, Love

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Few moments in our lifetime can be more stressful and uncomfortable than when we go on a date with someone for the first time. It doesn’t matter if your best friend introduced them to you or if you met them in an App.

The thought of being in front of a person you’re just meeting brings out your deepest fears. The fact that you don’t know what the other person will think of us or if your date will meet your expectations can make you self-doubt and wonder what to say or do.

After several years as a communication consultant, this is one of the most asked questions in my seminars. Because everyone wants to succeed without having to change their personality, and in the process, maybe meet the one.

Hence, here are ten ideas that will help you before, during, and after that special date. From what to wear, do, say, drink or eat to the most important thing to remember if you want to have a second date.

1. Don’t disqualify your date just because they’re not your type

Everyone has the perfect kind they dream of their date being. Perhaps you are on a blind date or with someone you met on a dating App, and the person in front of you doesn’t meet your expectations. Maybe…

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Jose Luis Ontanon Nunez
Hello, Love

Industrial Designer & Communication Coach. Dyslexia, History, & Trivia Writer. Father/Pet Lover — Top 1000 Writer, also on #Books, #Movies, #Reading & #Writing