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When Every Single Woman Flakes On You
It’s a phase that all intermediate playboys go through.
Ever swapped phone numbers with an absolute baddie only for her to bail on the date?
I went through a phase where seemingly every woman did that to me.
Since becoming a dating coach, I’ve learned it’s a normal phase. A symptom of still learning how modern dating works.
Thankfully, I’ve learned the most common reasons why this happens and how to avoid it.
No Meaningful Conversations
Many guys are way too friendly when approaching women.
Maybe they do a direct opener.
They say, “Oh, I like your style. You look so pretty. I wanted to talk.”
But after that, it’s just friendly talk. No flirting, no sexual tension.
Oftentimes, you seem kind and pleasant enough, so they give their number, but don’t respond.
You played it safe in your conversation and got that initial ‘win’.
But you didn’t spark that burning desire inside her, so she’s not excited to meet you again.
She can already enjoy pleasant vanilla conversation with her friends.
