When His Ego Refuses Your Rejection

Don’t confuse the chase for love, or you might be disappointed after the capture.

Jasmine Clemente
Hello, Love
Published in
4 min readDec 16, 2021

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When a person really loves you, they value you to the point that they listen to your needs and concerns, and they respect the decisions you make towards your own happiness and wellbeing. When a person doesn’t love you, they hear your needs and concerns but will try to manipulate you into desiring their needs and concerns so that you won’t disappoint them.

However, let’s be fair. No one likes to be rejected or dumped. Even if someone does genuinely love another, not having those feelings reciprocated hurts, and expressing how important the person is to us is healthy and normal. The problem is when it becomes obsessive; like a fatal attraction where the person refuses to let the other go against their own wishes.

Although this definitely happens both ways, this is a topic more so for the ladies than the fellas because women are constantly bombarded with online content suggesting that when a man is truly interested, he’ll chase you.

Ok, but how long do you want a man to chase you for? And should it really matter if he chases you or not?

There’s tons of advice over the internet on how to attract a man, keep a man, and how to make a man fall in love…

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Jasmine Clemente
Hello, Love

RYT 500 | Yin Yoga & Meditation | Author of “Living In The Light: A Guide To Discovering & Manifesting Your Life Purpose.” Visit www.jasmineclemente.com