Why Coffee Dates Are The Best Dates

Don’t let anyone tell you different.

Joe Elvin
Hello, Love
Published in
5 min readMar 21, 2023

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Coffee dates will help you find the perfect partner. They’re an ace first date. Better than a fancy three-course dinner anyway…

Don’t listen to the TikTokers and Medium writers who say otherwise.

If your Tinder match doesn’t want to meet for coffee, she’s not the woman for you.

Here’s why coffee dates are the best way to create an emotional connection.

Coffee Dates Are Casual

Women feel more comfortable agreeing to casual first dates.

They don’t need to spend ages dolling themselves up. They don’t have to commit to spending hours with someone they don’t know. There’s less pressure overall.

If a woman is ‘on the fence’ about meeting you, they’re more likely to agree to coffee than a formal dinner date.

Modern women are overwhelmed with romantic options. Men are hitting them up on Tinder, Bumble, Instagram and elsewhere. If they feel even slightly awkward about a first date, they’ll flake and go out with someone else. As a man, it’s your job to make it as easy as possible for women to meet you.

That means suggesting something casual. According to the 2022 Match Singles In America…

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Joe Elvin
Hello, Love

I help men to escape their comfort zones, improve their self-esteem and make smarter dating decisions. Buy my book 'Big Dick Energy' at https://amzn.to/3HxnwiH