Why Love Isn’t Enough To Save a Relationship

The pure rush of euphoria often blinds us to the things that really matter.

Anirban Kar
Hello, Love

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No matter how bad things get. No matter what happens along the road. If your love is pure, you will be together, period!

Let me ask you something. Do these lines give a fuzzy feeling in your stomach?

If you say yes, I don’t blame you.

This sentiment has been fed to us all our lives. On the surface, it seems innocent. However, if you dig deeper, you will find the root cause of all your relationship problems.

Love is all you need.

This message had been hammered into our heads by all those poetry, songs, novels, movies, and ad campaigns. The notion had been so contagious most people don’t stop to ask themselves, “Is love enough to make a relationship work?”

And why don’t they ask this question? It is because, to most people, love = relationship. Nevertheless, it cannot be further from the truth.

  • Love is an intense sense of affection that we feel in our hearts for the other person. It is more of a personal feeling.
  • A relationship, on the other hand, is an agreement and structure. It is more about cooperation, compatibility, and

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Anirban Kar
Hello, Love

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