You Are Wasting Life if You Don’t Know How To Be Single and Happy

With or without a partner, live immediately.

Colin Zhang
Hello, Love

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I have to admit. Women are more emotionally independent than ever before, more than men perhaps. At least it seems that way. They have a multitude of ways to fulfill their lives, and relationships are only one of them.

For me, though, as someone inexperienced in the romance department, most of my life revolves around impressing girls. From my career to lifestyle, I do everything for the sole purpose of finding a quality relationship.

I’ve been pursuing a busy gal. Just as I squeeze out something interesting enough to text her, the reply on the other end usually takes so long that the conversation flow dies. When I conjure up the courage to ask her to hang out, she’s always got something planned already, of course.

Now, to be clear, she is interested, at least somewhat, or else she wouldn’t agree to hanging out alone and inviting me out multiple times. Her schedule is simply overwhelming, juggling between work, snowboarding, golf, and friends. She’s already got a full life set up as a single woman, something I haven’t done myself.

My life has always been about preparing for the next relationship. Anything that I do in between is merely marking time. I never…

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