You Don’t Need to Be a ‘Pick Up Artist’ to Attract Women (Try This Instead)

Joe Elvin
Hello, Love
Published in
4 min readNov 30, 2022

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Guys, it’s possible to approach and date a ton of women without ruining your reputation.

In my role as a dating coach, that’s exactly what I teach men to do.

A lot of men like the idea of approaching many women to improve their flirting skills, but they don’t want to ruin their reputation while doing so.

  • They’re scared of being labelled as a ‘creepy pick-up guy’.
  • They’re afraid of harassment accusations.
  • Some simply don’t want their friends making fun of them.

But it’s absolutely possible to enjoy an abundant dating life without risking any of these scenarios.

So, let’s learn how to do that.

What Is A Pick-Up Artist?

Pick-up artists (PUAs) first came to mainstream consciousness following the release of Neil Strauss’ best-selling book ‘The Game’.

The PUAs in this book believed they had developed a secret formula to spark attraction. They wore wacky clothes, spoke in secret code and used canned routines based on NLP. Importantly, they saw women as ‘above’ them and believed they needed these clever tricks to even the playing field.

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Joe Elvin
Hello, Love

I help men to escape their comfort zones, improve their self-esteem and make smarter dating decisions. Buy my book 'Big Dick Energy' at https://amzn.to/3HxnwiH