You probably don’t qualify for your perfect woman.

Trey Hamilton
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6 min readNov 27, 2024

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That’s okay. I’ll help you understand how to land your dream woman.

We all dream of that perfect woman, right? — someone who checks every box, fits our fantasy, and feels like the ultimate catch — you want to show her off and start a family with her cause she’s that amazing! But here’s the hard question:

“Do you qualify for that woman?” Would they see you as their ideal, or would they be settling? Or would they feel like you’re a catch too!?

I seem like a dickhead when I say that, right?

But I couldn’t care less.

The reality is, regardless of whether you like it or not, ALL women have qualifying criteria.

Modern dating advice tells you to set high standards, you’re the shit, and what do they bring to the table and all that arrogant, condescending bullshit, but few encourage the deep brutal self-reflection needed to ask,

“Am I ready for the person I want?, Would they see me as a catch? Am I an actual catch?”.

Here’s how to shift your perspective, level up, build a healthier, more fulfilling dating experience, and be the big boy don you THINK you are. Leveling up means dropping the crown you imagined and building the throne you’ve worked to build.

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Trey Hamilton
Trey Hamilton

Written by Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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