Your Relationship “Green Flags” Are Actually Red Flags in Disguise

My “dream girl” turned out to be a nightmare.

Sachin pandit
Hello, Love

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“She’s always there when I need her. She never gives me grief about anything. And you know what? Last week, she surprised me with courtside tickets to the game that I wanted to play for a long time.”

I thought Lee would give me his usual fist bump.

But he didn’t. Instead, he leaned in and said, “I am worried about you, my brother.”

Literally, at that time, my stomach dropped. How could he not see how amazing she is?

But after talking with him. I started thinking in my mind, ‘Could it be true? Were the very things I loved about our relationship actually giant red flags I’d been too blind to see? ’

That conversation actually flipped everything I thought I knew about healthy relationships.

Now I will talk about some uncomfortable truth.

We all have heard about the ‘RED FLAGS,’ right?

It’s a glaring warning that tells us and screams, ‘Get out while you still can’.

But what about those trickier and more manupilative green flags? Those signs may look positive but actually hint at a more problematic issue.

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Sachin pandit
Hello, Love

Trying to spread some positivity, medical student interested in neurology.