Hello, Love
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Hello, Love

You’re Not Broken, Your Needs Are Unmet

Understanding the two-way street of idealization in relationships.


“What is necessary to change a person is to change the awareness of himself.” ~Abraham Maslow

I think one of the hardest things to hear is when someone says they’re “broken”.




Love changes us. Love makes us human.

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Annie Tanasugarn, PhD

Annie Tanasugarn, PhD

Psychologist. Certified Trauma & Relationship Specialist. https://behaviorthrive.com/

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