Hello, Love

The women underneath

Let me tell you something most people won’t admit about men:

Why your most critical life decision isn’t about passion — it’s about surviving 20,000 mundane Wednesdays together.

Somewhere along the way, a lot of us got the message that our bodies are the problem.

Rewire your silent signals and project unshakable authority in half a minute.

But how to recognize it?

How I got lost on Highway 880.

I’ll kiss your forehead and ask what your mother never gave you emotionally.

Some of us don’t want loud love. We just want quiet certainty.

Mutuality is the experience of being in a space of agreement, and you can only get there together.

On taking with you what you can’t leave behind

Why “I love you” feels deeper than “Love you” — and what it means when my husband drops the “I”

When pop psychology becomes a mask, not a mirror.

Marriage makes you interdependent.

My husband went back to work this week — after six weeks of paternity leave.

Get to know yourself through The Art and Act of Loving.

Some lessons come soft.

To understand the difference between happy and unhappy couples, Dr. Gottman began longitudinal studies in the 1970s.

And why most women don’t even know it exists.

Feelings fade. Emotions pass. But love? It lingers in places even silence can’t reach.

I could write four books at once, but now I can’t even finish a single page.