FVS 35: How To Conquer Your Fear And Go After Something You Want

Henry Mascot
Henry IfeanyiChukwu Mascot
4 min readMay 7, 2019

Here is your weekly For Value Sake, contributing value to your growth.

A weekly post, it contains a few articles, a book recommendation and a TED talk.

These are the most impressionable resources I consumed during the week, and share them so you can reap some value as I did.

A Quote Worth Thinking About

“It is not death that a man should fear, but he should fear never beginning to live.” — Marcus Aurelius

+ Read past editions of For Value Sake: 34, 33, and All,

1. ARTICLES WORTH READING

I. How To Conquer Your Fear And Go After Something You Want

+ “Turns out what it takes to chase an opportunity isn’t the same as what it takes to act on one.”

+ “A big opportunity may make you nervous, but that’s OK. It doesn’t mean you will fail and doesn’t mean you shouldn’t pursue it.”

We all have dreams, but they come with their demons — fears.
These fears stand as gatekeepers between us and our destiny.
But its oK to be afraid. Just don’t let it keep you back.
Live Full!

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II. Why we are never truly satisfied

+ “Only a man who lives not in time but in the present is happy…”

+ “Human beings are storytellers. We don’t see or observe things as they are but we impose a narrative line on the events in our life to add order to them.”

+ “We are not here to run from one illusionary problem to another; we are here to see, and experience, and love, and trust what is present — right now.”

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III. How to know a man is ready to commit

+ “If you wait around for someone who has nothing to give, you’ll end up right back where you started: with nothing”

+ “He isn’t ready for commitment if he has no plans for the future.”

+ “Putting other people and things above you doesn’t make you a priority, it makes you a stepping stone to the next easier thing that’s sure to come along.”

+ “If he wants to be with you for the long haul he isn’t going to be sitting on the fence mulling it over for years before deciding you’re The One.”

+ “More importantly, if you want a man who’ll commit, find one who’s actually ready. A man is ready to commit when he follows through with his actions and keeps his word. Anything less than that is nothing.”

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2. VIDEO WORTH READING

The History of Human Emotions — Tiffany Watt-Smith

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3. WHAT IM READING

Africa Rise And Shine, by Jim Ovia

+ How a Nigerian Entrepreneur from Humble Beginnings Grew a Business to $16 Billion

The road to success is rarely linear and never easy. Despite countless
setbacks, Jim Ovia, founder of Zenith Bank, was able to achieve the unthinkable.

Africa Rise and Shine is the story of Ovia’s business and banking success and how he was able to create one of Africa’s largest banks. Spanning decades of both world and Nigerian history, Africa Rise and Shine dives deep into the events that led to Ovia’s triumph.

Get a copy of all the books I’ve read and shared on FVS here.

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