Women Are No Longer O-ing At The Bare Minimum…

She won’t accept it, she won’t budge and she will no longer be made to feel bad or unworthy when a slew of threats and insults are hurled at her; because more and more of today’s women are settling into a state of unbothered bliss and self-preservation.

Arthur Storm
3 min readSep 12, 2022
Photo by Alex Mihai C on Unsplash

SHOULD WE FEEL BAD FOR THEM? Because it’s their families to blame… Right? I mean people totally aren’t responsible for how they act and what choices they make as their enter socialization.

When women behave in disturbing and inappropriate manners, they’re ridiculed and held accountable; it is her fault alone, as her parents must have done their jobs; this woman is a bad seed and does not behave in the ways in which she should.

When a man behaves in disturbing or inappropriate ways, it cannot be his fault; he’s a tortured soul who was clearly not given opportunities to express himself healthily! Poor boy wasn’t shown any love… poor guy.

While women have been held to a standard of emotional maturity, responsibility and accountability for every move they make, men have been able to avoid the bare minimum for far too long.

Their time has come. We the women will no longer c*m at the thought of you opening doors for us, or texting us consistently, or convince ourselves that we are satisfied with you… NOT satisfying us!

What I find most funny about these statistics, where it’s been made clear that there’s a concerning about of single straight men in the world today due to the reestablishment of the standards men must be held to… is that the men who are most bothered by this are the men who know they can’t compete or have convinced themselves effort is less than them/women being inferior and undeserving of decency.

This is why the men I know and love are unbothered by these statistics. Unaffected and most certainly, unwilling to indulge in the content of those who are obsessed with it.

Though we should be concerned for the flip side of this statistic, where the men in that group are lonely because they lack basic social skills and truly have not been attended to, I can’t help but feel like that is only a minority whom are both lonely based on their lack of social skills.

Apparently to the men who are not on the innocent and unfortunate side of this issue, we’ve just gotten picky.

We the women who:

  • We want too much.
  • We think we’re too good for them.
  • We have the audacity to desire decency and genuine romance.
  • We don’t want nor are forced to accept nonsensical bullsh*t.
  • We don’t need male approval to feel good about ourselves, feel attractive.
  • We don’t need men to enjoy ourselves or experience pleasure.

It’s funny because men from the disturbing part of this statistic seem to think they most provide our lives with value and if we do not need them necessarily, we should force ourselves and/or be forced to accept it none the less; allowing what they provide us with to be said bare minimum if we are lucky.

I would like to thank feminist movements which have allowed for, a long road which eventually brought us to the land of self improvement and empowerment. From my earliest memories of “girl power” stickers in the most bold hot pinks imaginable to todays “detach”, “girl boss”, “law of attraction”, “that girl”, and other mentalities and aesthetics, I’ve witnessed the decline in women’s interest in (some) mens bullsh*t in the 21st century first hand!

I’m pleased to say that if the men among this demographic (who aren’t single by choice or desire or freedom or undesirable factors) wish to change this, they ought to… how should I put this?

:::: “ Think of what they should do rather than what they/men before them used to be able to get away with. ” ::::

We the women, are no longer interested in anything less!

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