Here’s The Thing

Melissa Alvarez

Nov 21

We Need Less Articles About Overnight Success

Why do we champion stories like this?

Melissa Alvarez

Nov 16

The Insidiousness Of Being Exclusive

What cheaters use to justify cheating.

Melissa Alvarez

Nov 12

Good Habits Make You More Attractive

Women will move on if they feel like they’re living with an adult teenager.

Melissa Alvarez

Nov 8

Incels, The Internet Is Using You

I’m tired of seeing this, so I’m gonna say something.

Melissa Alvarez

Oct 30

Do Men Want Children More Than Women?

An observation I’ve noticed in my life.

Melissa Alvarez

Oct 21

7 Ways I Combat Loneliness

We cannot cure loneliness, but we can do things to make it less uncomfortable.

Melissa Alvarez

Oct 18

You’ve Given Up Casual Dating And Now You Have No Options

Let’s be honest about this…

Melissa Alvarez

Oct 18

Love Is Blind Season 5 Illuminated The Realities Of Modern Dating

This season was a complete mess.

Melissa Alvarez

Oct 16

Stop Giving Your Friends Crap Dating Advice

It’s better to tell them the truth.

Melissa Alvarez

Oct 15

We Don’t Need To Know About Will And Jada’s Relationship

Why? Because it’s simply unhealthy.

Melissa Alvarez

Oct 11

You Can Be Happy Single And Lonely At The Same Time

Loneliness is normal and it’s okay to feel it.

Melissa Alvarez

Oct 6

If You Don’t Accept Casual, Your Dating Pool Will Shrink

I’m sorry to be the bearer of bad news.

Melissa Alvarez

Oct 2

Women Are Quitting Dating Because Of Situationships

I keep seeing stories of women who give up, because they never experienced a relationship at all.

Melissa Alvarez

Sep 27

Women Can Be At Fault Too

The accountability part of healing.

Melissa Alvarez

Sep 25

Sophie Turner, EmRata, And Divorce Under 30

Emily Ratajkowski talks about being disillusioned by marriage.

Melissa Alvarez

Sep 9

Throw The Liar Away

My girlfriends in healthy relationships are quick to cut someone off.

Melissa Alvarez

Sep 3

“You Need To Choose Better Men”

Do we need to choose better men or do men need to be better?

Melissa Alvarez

Aug 27

Should You Stop Watching Influencers?

A look at how Social Media is just one big Marketing ploy.

Melissa Alvarez

Aug 20

Your Friends Found Love On The Apps, But You Haven’t

Are you just unlucky?

Melissa Alvarez

Aug 16

Bitter Divorces & Resiliency

Divorce is not a surprise, so why do so many people act like it is?

Melissa Alvarez

Aug 15

Medium Is Hiding Our Real Earnings

Have you noticed the changes?

Melissa Alvarez

Aug 14

7 Taboo Social Rules Everyone’s Afraid To Own Up To

A few things that are contradictory in our society.

Melissa Alvarez

Aug 9

I Finally Had A Normal Dating Experience

A little story time.

Melissa Alvarez

Aug 8

What’s Wrong With Me And Why Can’t I Find A Date?

A look into comparing ourselves to other women.

Melissa Alvarez

Aug 2

Here’s The Thing

Your Resident Carrie Bradshaw | A Blog Diary About Life & Relationships by Melissa Alvarez

Your Toxic Partner Is Not Gonna Change

We Need Less Articles About Overnight Success

The Insidiousness Of Being Exclusive

Good Habits Make You More Attractive

Incels, The Internet Is Using You

Do Men Want Children More Than Women?

7 Ways I Combat Loneliness

You’ve Given Up Casual Dating And Now You Have No Options

Love Is Blind Season 5 Illuminated The Realities Of Modern Dating

Stop Giving Your Friends Crap Dating Advice

We Don’t Need To Know About Will And Jada’s Relationship

You Can Be Happy Single And Lonely At The Same Time

If You Don’t Accept Casual, Your Dating Pool Will Shrink

Women Are Quitting Dating Because Of Situationships

Women Can Be At Fault Too

Sophie Turner, EmRata, And Divorce Under 30

Throw The Liar Away

“You Need To Choose Better Men”

Should You Stop Watching Influencers?

Your Friends Found Love On The Apps, But You Haven’t

Bitter Divorces & Resiliency

Medium Is Hiding Our Real Earnings

7 Taboo Social Rules Everyone’s Afraid To Own Up To

I Finally Had A Normal Dating Experience

What’s Wrong With Me And Why Can’t I Find A Date?