10 Questions to Ask Your Mentor or Mentee

Shereese Maynard
HITLikeAGirlPod
Published in
4 min readApr 21, 2023

In the rapidly evolving field of Health IT, women face unique challenges and opportunities. One of the most valuable resources for women in Health IT is a mentor who can offer guidance, support, and advice. But how can women in Health IT maximize their relationship with a mentor? In this post, we will discuss the top 10 questions women in Health IT should ask their mentors to foster a mutually beneficial relationship and the top 10 questions mentors should ask mentees. Additionally, we will provide tips for getting the greatest value out of the mentor/mentee relationship.

Questions Women in Health IT Should Ask Their Mentor:

  1. What inspired you to pursue a career in Health IT?
  2. What are the biggest challenges facing women in Health IT, and how can I overcome them?
  3. What skills are most important for success in Health IT, and how can I develop them?
  4. Can you share a time when you faced a difficult situation in your career and how you overcame it?
  5. How can I best leverage my strengths in my organization without coming off as too aggressive?
  6. What are the most critical trends in Health IT, and how can I stay up-to-date with them?
  7. How can I build a strong network in Health IT, and what resources are available to me? Are there groups you’d recommend?
  8. What are some effective strategies for advocating for myself in the workplace, particularly as a woman in Health IT?
  9. How can I find harmony in my personal and professional life and what strategies have you found helpful?
  10. What other advice do you have for women pursuing a career in Health IT?

Questions Mentors Should Ask Mentees:

  1. What inspired you to pursue a career in Health IT?
  2. What do you see as your strengths and weaknesses in Health IT?
  3. What are your short-term and long-term career goals, and how can I help you achieve them?
  4. What are some challenges you currently face in your career, and how can I support you in overcoming them?
  5. What are your learning goals, and how can I help you achieve them?
  6. How do you prefer to receive feedback, and what can I do to support your growth?
  7. What are your top personal and professional development priorities, and how can I help you achieve them?
  8. What are some of your interests outside of Health IT, and how can we incorporate them into our mentorship?
  9. What are your thoughts on the current state of Health IT, and what are the most pressing issues facing the industry?
  10. What other advice or support do you need from me as your mentor?

Tips for Getting the Greatest Value out of the Mentor/Mentee Relationship:

  1. Set clear expectations: Establish goals and objectives for the mentorship relationship, and ensure that both parties are on the same page.
  2. Be open and honest: Share your thoughts, feelings, and experiences openly and honestly with your mentor or mentee.
  3. Listen actively: Listen to your mentor or mentee actively and seek to understand their perspective.
  4. Be receptive to feedback: Be open to receiving feedback from your mentor or mentee, and use it as an opportunity to grow.
  5. Take ownership of your development: Take an active role in your personal and professional development, and seek opportunities to learn and grow.
  6. Respect each other’s time: Respect each other’s time and commitments, and establish a schedule that works for both parties.
  7. Communicate regularly: Regularly communicate with your mentor or mentee, and keep each other informed of your progress and challenges.
  8. Celebrate successes: Celebrate each other’s achievements and accomplishments, and use.

Landing a great mentorship is amazing. But let’s be real; it’s not all sunshine and roses. In fact, there are some behaviors you should actively avoid if you want to cultivate a healthy and fulfilling relationship. First up, stop making assumptions about your partner’s abilities or expectations without discussing them first. Trust me; it’s much easier to have an open conversation than to silently stew in frustration. And please, for the love of all that is good, don’t impose your own expectations on your partner. They’re not a mind reader (unless you happen to be mentoring Professor X), so express what you need in a clear and concise manner. Oh, and when the going gets tough, don’t avoid difficult discussions. It’s like ripping off a Band-Aid — the anticipation is worse than the actual conversation. Lastly, don’t take criticism personally, and make sure to establish clear boundaries. Now get out there and be a mentoring boss!

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Shereese Maynard
HITLikeAGirlPod

Digital Health Professional. Woman in Technology. Writer. Speaker. Hiker. She/her