How to Find Your Soulmate On This Val’s Day
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Life is full of uncertainties. As we mature in life, there are a lot of questions that comes to mind of which we need answers to them.
Born as a Christian child from a developing country, we are not mostly allowed to question certain things in the bible probably because we were kids or something.
But upon growing up, it has downed on me to seek answers to questions. And one of this questions is “how do I find my soulmate".
The bigger question even come, how do I know , I have met my soulmate?
I want us to get this question right. Right now as we have married, are we married to our soulmate or we are just married to someone we think we love.
Now let me give you the definition of soulmate connection.
A soulmate is someone you feel a deep, intense connection with, where both people feel drawn together as if that connection was meant to be.”
So looking at the definition, there’s an intense connection and in that connection, there’s a feeling of meant to be.
Meant to be in the sense that, it’s decreed to happen and nothing could have possibly prevented this situation from happening in real life.
But now let us ask ourselves this painful question.
Like the relationship we are in now whether it’s marriage or courtship, can we label that connection as a soulmate connection. Having this intense feeling of we are meant to be together. It’s a natural feeling we as humans can’t do away with. You get me. And you feel that too.
But there’s one thing that when you meet them, you will surely have to face squarely, they will put you to test. They will subconsciously test you if you’re the real one.
And once you’re the real one, consciously or subconsciously you will respond.
So soulmate connection is a natural form of connection that flows freely just like that.
It feels like as an old man or woman, you have met your childhood buddy. You know that kind of feeling. That’s what I am talking about. Even as old as you might seem to be, you can be doing childhood things, which will seem eventually normal to you.
This is because, the connection feels like, you’re back home after a long trip.
But one thing remains, in other to have the full blown spiritual experience of soulmate connection one has to open his third eye.
YOU CAN READ HOW I ACTIVATED MY THIRD EYE HERE.
So before Val’s Day, which is probably on the 14th of February, I want to give you this tips on how to find your soul partner, so that you will be fully prepared for a show up on the “D Day".
So let’s dive through some simple steps to find that old buddy you have been searching for all you life.
Ohk, let’s I forget I thing, the good news is that a soulmate can be anything you want them to be. “A soulmate can be romantic, platonic, sexual or spiritual in nature,”
So let’s moves my buddies
1. On dates, be yourself.
Don’t get me wrong dude,💃
That feels familiar.
Everyone wants to look their best when they go on a date, but maintaining appearances—whether in person or on social media—won’t help you meet your true love.
Being content with who you are is essential to this. The best thing is to first get to know oneself in order to attract your soul partner. "I think the secret to setting yourself up to meet your soulmate is to concentrate on self-growth and introspection."
2. Live a more fulfilling existence
This is not pretty familiar because living a full existence, is livingyour highest self.
Your life does not begin when you find your true love.
Actually, if your life is already full, there is a far higher chance that you will meet the appropriate person. Take up new interests, go on trips, hang out with friends—do whatever brings you joy.
When you’re just unwinding and enjoying life, it’s one of the greatest moments to meet a mate. According to Lyndsey, "in this manner you set yourself up to meet someone who will match whatever energy you are putting into the world."
See a soulmate as someone who will complement your already amazing life, not someone who takes over your entire existence.
3. Control your expectations.
This might seem a bit difficult but that is how it’s get the journey going and interesting. You have to control your expectations.
Your imagination might run wild because of expectations; wanting to meet that special one.
It’s crucial to avoid having irrational expectations of a new or potential spouse when you’re dating.
Don’t expect to see someone as your soulmate right away when you first get to know them and start to bond.
Strong connections and relationships can develop into something amazing over time, but they can also happen quickly.
4. Date a variety of people
Wow!!!, this sounds critical. Go out dating people. You see, when it comes to soulmate connections, we can have many soulmates.
Many people have a "type," which could be anything from tall and blonde to sporty and intelligent. However, maintaining such strict boundaries may prevent you from meeting that special someone and force you to repeat unsuccessful relationship patterns.
Be more receptive to new ideas and trust the process even if you already have a mate in mind. It’s exciting and pleasant to date a variety of people, and you might even find your soul mate that way.
I love this. I think you love this point too. Let’s get out and go dating, on that D Day, we might find that special one.
5. Go beyond your comfort zone.
You want the best for yourself as a man or woman. Finding your soulmate feels like home, so getting something important must come with a price to pay. So pay attention.
Look around you, are there any fitness classes or languages you’ve always wanted to learn that you’ve been wanting to try for a while? Maybe you’ve been meaning to volunteer with a nearby nonprofit organization but haven’t had time. This is the moment to step outside of your comfort zone and pursue your goals.
In addition to boosting your self-esteem, changing up your weekly schedule is a terrific approach to expand your social circle and meet new people.
Take what you’ve learned from the past.
Now lets busy a bit. The hard truth is finding a new partner requires self-awareness, which is why it’s critical to take lessons from past partnerships. Even though it can be difficult to admit our own shortcomings, doing so can actually assist us stop repeating bad habits.
No matter how difficult it may be, being sincere and sympathetic can help you go forward with a different mindset. Before moving on if a previous relationship severely wounded you, be sure the wounds have healed.
6. Put your desires in writing.
Knowledge is Power.
Because of people like Roxie Nafousi, author of Manifest: 7 Steps to Living Your Best Life, manifestation is a popular topic. In her own words, the method is "a self-development practice that will enable you to reach your goals, cultivate self-love, and live your best life—a meeting of science and wisdom."
Making a list or vision board of the things you want to happen, like meeting someone wonderful, is something Roxie suggests doing. You should focus on the values and qualities you want in a mate. This can work wonders in drawing in like-minded individuals.
Enjoy the Thrills of the Soulmate journey..
