I am the mother of a toddler, find difficulties in behavior development in my child. So, I research it a lot. It gave me the idea to share it with people who are having some problems in their parenthood.

How to teach toddler good manner

INTRODUCTION
It’s every parent’s obligation to teach good manners of each and everything to your child. It depends on you how you handle and help your child to be on the right path and take each step properly. From sleeping routine to book reading habits how smartly we parents develop these habits. But not every child needs to have the same stamina of absorption that we are teaching them. So don’t get stress nor burden your child by comparing them to others it affects badly their personality. And personality is a basic element of life.
Slow and calmly teach your child how to talk politely, clean yourself and surroundings, respect elders, table manners because from schools our children get knowledge but manners it should be started from home. Etiquette guru Emily Post once said, “Manners are a sensitive awareness of the feelings of others. If you have that awareness, you have good manners, no matter what fork you use.”

“Good manners are your beauty.” Imam Ali (AS)

MANNER TIPS

Here are some tips which are essential to developing good manners:

1. Start with basic

The first step to having a mannerly child is being a mannerly parent. Then make up your child’s mind for good behavior. It is unrealistic for your child to just pick up the habit of good manners by telepathy. Make some rules and follow by yourself then teach a toddler how to follow them.

2. Be a role model

Around the 18-month mark, a child begins to understand that other people have feelings just like his, so this is the time to start teaching kids that their behavior affects others. Practice making child informal to accept basic good manners. Teach good manners is a game it depends on the child to child. Parents always the role model of their children.

3. Use gestures and expression

To teach good manners in toddlers first we have to observe them which language and gesture without any doughty they retain them. Using the right type of expression is so important when toddlers don’t listen. To stop them from doing wrong with eye gestures next time to repeat it your child will understand what you want from him or her.

4. Teach by phrases

Make magic words for your toddler to teach good manners on the table or in any social gathering how to greet someone. At a very early age start these habits make a child comfortable accepting such things. Thank you, sorry, hello teach these words in the same way you want your child to say, he or she defiantly give a lift to these words in their communication.

FACTORS

The factors which produce good manners are Good manners only. Well, you may laugh at this but this is exactly the only answer for this. The characterization of Good manners is found in good books. The books have a large elaboration of what Manners can be and how it can be enacted. So, to learn good manners, you may learn it from books.

But, Is this True? According to me, this is not. The answer is simple! A Man or a Woman can’t learn good manners unless or until they do it or prove it by their behaviors.

Good manners are learned first at Home, then in School, and then in the Society in which they live. And most importantly, a child who learns it in his or her childhood will live on that till his or her life. A good mannered Man draws the attention of all whereas a bad-mannered person is avoided by all.

In my viewpoint, “Good manner” really doesn’t have any definition! It is that magical understanding which can only be felt and cannot be seen. Sonite Kumar Goswami

https://www.quora.com/What-factors-produce-good-manners[i]

QUESTION AND ANSWERS

You can teach good manners by questioning your children. The answer will guide you on which step he or she lie how more hard work they need because in the future they will be a lady and gentlemen so initial teaching of good manners matters a lot for a life time.

http://mannersandgrace.net/etiquette-quiz-for-children/

CONCLUSION
Children are the shadow of their parents so it’s up to us how we build up their abilities. They are basic examples like a tree from first breath till last what you teach them they give the benefit of it at anything phase of life. Slow and steady wins the race toddler follow this path it depends on us to patiently handle their developing period.

“A gentleman is not defined by the content of his wallet or the cut of his suit. He is defined by his manners and the content of his character.” Anonymous

IN THE ARTICLE

· Start with basic

· Be a role model

· Use gestures and expression

· Teach by phrases

· Factors

· Question and answers