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How Masturbation Helped Me Reconnect with My Sexual Instinct

I followed my pleasure and ignored my shame

Photo by Chiara Marabese on Scopio

I’ve always been great at simulating sex. As someone who struggled with shyness and shame for most of her adult life, there were things I couldn’t do in bed with another person but that I needed to do. So I found ways to act out some pretty elaborate sexual…