Howl by Yael Wolfe
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Howl by Yael Wolfe

What Does “Dirty Girl” Really Mean?

Are we failing to call out invisible sexism in the bedroom? Or is this just a harmless moniker?

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I used to love it when my partner called me a dirty girl in bed. I knew what he meant by it — that he was turned on by my blatant pursuit and occasionally unabashed expressions of pleasure.




A column exploring female sexuality and equality

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