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Foundations of an Evolving Way of Human-Hearted Leadership
How we treat each other is a reflection of how we treat ourselves.
The following suggestions for treating others — an essential foundation of humanitarian leadership — may seem simple until we are faced with criticism, prejudice, or hatred.
When confronted with real or threatened violence, your safety should always come first.
Treat Others Like You Would Treat a Helpless, 6-Week-Old Puppy
If you see a litter of puppies and someone hands you one, you will instinctively hold it with love, kindness, tenderness, and respect. (At least, I hope so!)
This analogy is not about coddling someone’s emotions or speaking to them like a child. Instead, imagine being in a heated argument with someone. Now, in the middle of that argument, replace the person with that barely-eyes-open puppy.
Yes, it’s an extreme example, but a useful thought exercise. It reminds us to approach others with care, even in conflict.
Seek First to Understand with a Question
Asking instead of telling helps the other person gain clarity to make their best choices.
