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“Voweling My Habit” — It’s as simple as A-E-I-O-You.

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The Mnemonic You Already Know That Can Make Habits Easy

Made for ADHD, but strong enough for anyone!

Gray Miller
Humans with ADHD
Published in
6 min readJan 23, 2025

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My dentist tells me I need to floss more.
To be specific, I need to floss more regularly — make it into a habit.

You’re fifty-six years old, Gray. Why isn’t it a habit already? I used to blame it on my upbringing — brushing was something encouraged, but for whatever reason flossing was never part of my bedtime or morning routine.

Now, though, I know that the truth of my ADHD brain is that it is not very good at creating habits, at least not in the tried-and-true “Atomic Habits” style.

This is due to a lot of things, most notably my brain’s poor use of available dopamine:

Habits are often formed through a process of repetition and reward. When the dopamine system isn’t functioning optimally, it can be harder to find the motivation to repeat behaviors consistently enough for them to become automatic. Neurolaunch

This means that even if my parents had encouraged me to floss, the odds of it becoming a habit — that is, something that I just do automatically without having to put much thought into it — are pretty low.

There’s no magic “30-day” or “6-week” rule.

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Humans with ADHD
Humans with ADHD

Published in Humans with ADHD

Humans with ADHD is a dedicated place for people with ADHD to share their stories, thoughts, struggles and achievements while connecting with fellow ADHDers.

Gray Miller
Gray Miller

Written by Gray Miller

Gray is a former Marine dancer grandpa visualist who writes to help adults figure out what they want to be when they grow up.

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