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When Lacking a Role Model is Dangerous, or, The Weight of Isolation

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For the first time in my life, I can feel myself aging.

I can feel the heavy weight of tragedy, of hardship, of something there is no answer for, dragging me down slowly, slowly, further, further, more slumping, more drooping, less laughter, less ease, less … ease.




I-Ally is a community-driven app that saves millennial family caregivers time, reduces stress, and enables informed decision-making by providing services that fulfill their unique needs. https://i-ally.com.

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Lucinda Koza

Lucinda Koza

Founder & CEO of I-Ally, a community-driven app for millennial family caregivers.

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