I Do See Color
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I Do See Color

Do black men really care about black women’s hair?

Men weigh in on their favorite traits about women


I never thought I wanted to be “Best __________” in a high school yearbook until I cut my hair. I’d been playing with the idea freshman year and finally wacked it off sophomore year. I knew how to dye hair, perm hair and was an OK braider.




We are not ashamed of our melanin, and we know you “see” it. Just don’t discriminate and disrespect us because of it.

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Shamontiel L. Vaughn

Shamontiel L. Vaughn

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