Why among the People You Date the Most Attractive Ones Tend to Be Jerks

Or why it’s so hard to find the perfect romantic partner

David B. Clear
I Wanna Know

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Image by the author (CC BY-SA 4.0)

Do the same genes that make you beautiful also make you into a douchebag? Or is it more a nurture thing, with people who have been coveted all their life eventually becoming arrogant and mean?

If you’ve spent any time drowning yourself in the dating pool in the search for that special person, you might have noticed that there seems to be a correlation between how attractive someone is and how much of a jerk they are. And the correlation seems to be positive, meaning, the more attractive someone is, the more likely they seem to be jerks.

What’s more, this correlation not only seems to be true for physical attractiveness, but also for other attractiveness measures such as wealth and status, with rich people who are high up on the social ladder also tending to be more obnoxious.

An attractive jerk. Image by the author. Based on a photo by Matt Lamers on Unsplash.

Now, of course that’s not always true and there are plenty of exceptions. Still, in general, there seems to be this trend.

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David B. Clear
I Wanna Know

Cartoonist, science fan, PhD, eukaryote. Doesn't eat cats, dogs, nor other animals. 1,000x Bottom Writer. davidbclear.com