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Can Girls make the first move?

Why It Isn’t So Bad to Text Him First

They say it’s difficult to find love in the modern world, but the truth is, it’s only as difficult as we make it. Why do we wait for a guy to express interest in us when we like him and want to take things further as women? Why do we wait for his text for a long time, expecting him to ask us out? Perhaps we’ve been conditioned to believe that guys don’t appreciate women who are forward and move too quickly — but if that’s how we really feel, why hide it? Furthermore, not all males share this viewpoint. Many of them find women who are confident and clear to be incredibly appealing! It demonstrates that you are self-sufficient and do not believe in gender roles. But how will you come to know unless you take the first step? If you’re still not convinced, here are five more reasons to text him first:

Eliminate the Waiting You go through a nervous phase of waiting for his texts when you meet a new guy and the chemistry starts to build. You don’t want to initiate the discussion because you’re frightened of coming across as too eager or too available, even though he’s always on your mind. It’s sometimes beneficial to not overthink things and just do it. It can help you conserve mental energy. It can help you conserve mental energy. After all, life is short, and we don’t want to waste it waiting for love, do we?

He Might Be Shy We’ve been socialized to believe that in love, males must take the lead. They’re expected to text us first, ask us out, drop us off at home, pay for dates, and pop the question, while we just sit back and watch. This is not only unjust but also tedious! Maybe he likes you too but is not able to express it. Save yourself and him from this waiting game by texting him first!

Confidence is appealing. Women who are strong, assertive, and outspoken do not intimidate all males. You don’t want him in your life regardless if he is! In the year 2022, women must stop worrying about appearing ‘too much of anything and start owning their emotions like bosses. If you’re in love, stick with it. There is nothing to be embarrassed about. In truth, many men appreciate women who are clear and confident. For them, it’s a welcome shift.

Remove Your Delusions It’s possible that you think you’ve struck it off with a guy, but he doesn’t share your sentiments. Communication is the key to finding out. Building castles in the air and being deluded can be quite harmful in the long run. So don’t be afraid to text him first to find out what’s on his mind. It’s preferable to be rejected now than later.

by ichhori.com Reference: ichhori.com

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iChhori - Breaking Stereotypes

iChhori - Breaking Stereotypes

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About iChhori represents all those females who do NOT believe in stereotypes.