Five Reasons I Rejected You

And no, it wasn’t just because you’re a Dom

Anne Shark
Dec 22, 2019 · 4 min read

I rejected someone tonight.


I’m sorry…


On my end, I’d been trying to figure out how to leave for a while.


“I guess I’m just not feeling it,” I told him.


But I was inclined to…


The truth was, it wasn’t just a kink mismatch.


We didn’t talk about very much that interested me at all.


He referred to how hot I was, multiple times.


He talked about his friends.


So yeah… it was all of that.


In any case, it felt good to be honest.


If Not Romance

Relationships don’t need to follow a set of prewritten rules.

Anne Shark

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Top writer in Love, Relationships and Feminism, Anne writes about polyamory, sex and dating.

If Not Romance

Relationships don’t need to follow a set of prewritten rules.

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