Sometimes it’s ok that we don’t “get” each other.

It’s more important to be accepting and tolerant even if we don't understand. Maybe we don’t even need to understand.

I really do not “get” impostor syndrome. I've read the definition 100 times, and some stories about it, and I still don’t understand. Why would you do that to yourself?

I do “get” ADHD though, as I have a raging case of it myself. There are some positive things about it too. It is frustrating when people expect me to relate to the world as they do. They tell me to plan, organize, how to overcome. A pet…




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