Why Can’t You Be More Like An Asian Girl?

Ways in which white supremacy pits Black girls against Asian girls

Photo by Heshan Perera on Unsplash

When I was 17, I dated a White guy. Before me, he had dated an Asian girl. Whenever we’d argue, he would tell me I had too much of a strong character. He would say I was too outspoken, too forceful, too loud. During our heated discussions, at one point or another, he would always…



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