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Why We Follow The Worst People

Nearly 10 years in the daycare business have explained everything.

Erin King
Curated Newsletters
7 min readFeb 3, 2020

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Erin King is the author of “How To Be Wise AFon Amazon now.

We all have an inborn instinct to follow the worst person in the room.

I haven’t read a bunch of studies or taken sociology or psychology degrees — I work with toddlers.

I’ve had a home daycare for the last eight years. For these eight years,10 hours a day, five days a week, I observe the inception and development of human behavior.

Every day I watch five little animals struggle to become human. Every day is a battle between their basest animal instincts and the necessary evolution into human society.

One of the instincts I see surface continually is the impulse to follow the worst person in the room.

No matter the child — angel, or renegade — every group of toddlers repeats the same pattern, without exception. They always gravitate to the worst behavior in the room.

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Erin King
Curated Newsletters

Writer, musician, toddler wrangler. Author: “How To Be Wise AF”, a 30-day prompted journal-find out more on Amazon. Contact me at howtobewiseaf@gmail.com