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Why You Should Talk More About Sex…
With your partner
I know I know… talking openly about sex with your partner is not the easiest task in the world. I would even say that it is easier to fight a brown bear than to do this, lol.
But things can’t be like this forever…
I understand this “embarrassment” or “fear” of bringing up the subject right when you start a relationship. But if you’ve been together for a while and never bring up the subject, it could also mean something else: that your man is a woman or that there’s something wrong in your relationship — and usually the cause is the latter.
All puns aside, I’m serious when I say that talking about sex is important in a relationship. I know it might sound indecent, or even inappropriate — but that’s how it should be.
For example, did you know that couples who talk openly about sex, relationships, and things like that are happier than those who don’t? Seriously, really. And no, I didn’t make that up — Doubt me? Then check out this study here.
In other words, a healthy relationship should be able to listen and talk openly about it with a smile on your face, like a casual conversation between lovers. However, if this doesn’t work like that in your relationship, I would open your eyes wide and “analyze” the reason behind it.
