10 Secret Ways Girls Reveal They Love You

Ali Dgr
ILLUMINATION
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4 min readJul 14, 2024
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We’ve all had the taste of a woman’s mixed signs at least once in our lives, and at times, it gets almost impossible to tell what they’re trying to imply.

If you two are tired of overthinking the same thing again and again, and if you constantly keep wondering if she likes you or not? In this article, I tell you 10 things that she does if she loves you.

1. She’ll Listen

One of the most common ways of judging whether she likes you or not is by seeing how attentively she listens to you. Women usually love speaking, and if your girl keeps quiet because she wants to hear you speak.

You must be a little special to her. In fact, at times, when women are head over heels for a guy, they would ask him questions that would make him talk a lot, and they’d just sit there listening to him.

It’s very cute, I know, so notice your talk time around her on your next date.

2. Notice the Effort

When a girl genuinely likes a guy, you can see the effort she’s putting in. As hard as she might be trying to prove that she’s not into you. You can still notice the small things.

She might be making an effort to make plans to meet you or hold a conversation even after it’s long dead.

She might get you small gifts, saying it’s nothing, but obviously, show she is trying. So, look into the little effortless things that she does for you.

3. Her Tone

Sometimes, some girls give it away instantly by the way they talk to you or address you. It’s pretty simple to observe the way she is around other people and observe her tone of talking around you.

If it’s the same, then I’m very sorry, but if she talks more sweetly and sounds polite and lovely. She’s definitely got something going on in her head for you.

Girls also compliment the guys that they like, or they roast them a lot, so it can be either depending on the girl’s nature.

4. Target Her Friends

Girls will tell anything and everything to their friends, be they males or females, assuming that they’re close. So, if you get a chance to hang out with their friends, notice how they all react to her in your presence.

There’s gotta be some teasing and weird eye contact between them that might hint you towards something.

If you’re lucky enough to be close with one of her friends, simply get in touch with them and ask up front if you think that won’t screw things up.

5. Shyness

Even the most confident girl blushes and gets shy around the guy she really likes and crushes over. It’s basic human nature, and we can’t deny it.

So, if your girl is pretty confident and tones it down around you or gets a little shy at your remarks, just know that she likes you and is not showing it.

You can test this out by complimenting her or saying something good about her success and her progress and seeing her reaction to it. She’ll give it out if she’s really into you.

6. Jealousy

Speaking of human nature, how can we leave out the jealousy factor as hard as a woman tries to hide it?

It is still evident in most of her actions and words it would be a very dumb move if you tried to get close to a girl deliberately to get her attention.

But if an opportunity arises where you can judge her actions over the jealousy factor. Make sure, you don’t miss that opportunity and observe what she does and how she reacts to other women near you.

7. Her Agreeing with You

This might not go well with every girl because some like having no filter and are very much indulged in themselves.

But with most girls, it is easy to tell that they like you because they would agree with you a lot.

Try coming up with your opinions on random subjects and see how she presents her views. Do they go in line with yours, or do they contradict them? Because if she really likes you. You’ll see that most of your views are very much alike.

8. Her Apparent Awkwardness

Girls can be really independent and confident, but what’s cute is that they’ll make a complete fool out of themselves around the boys they like. That’s because of their adrenaline rush and all the good things you feel.

When you’re around people you’re attracted to, this eventually leads to awkwardness. Because girls are also trying to hide their feelings.

So, if you see her tripping over her words or her legs or if you see her hands getting awkward and she laughs a little too loud, well, you’ve got the girl.

9. Her Body Language

When it comes to human psychology, body language holds a very huge place in the entire branch. How humans react toward you shows what they think of you.

So, if she’s standing straight, making occasional nods, asking limitless questions, or just looking at you and listening silently.

It’s obvious that she’s paying attention to what you’re saying. If you make jokes, she might give you a subtle touch on your shoulder or hand while she brings out her gorgeous laugh.

So, look out for those little hints here and there in the way she carries herself around you.

10. Her Yes to Offers

Then, finally, she would like you if you asked her out, and she would say yes. Instead of looking for thousands of signs to see if she likes you.

Simply man up and ask her up front what the worst thing that could happen is, and she’d say no.

Well, there are a billion other women out there who die to say yes to you; quit overthinking and just ask her out.

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Ali Dgr
ILLUMINATION

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