11 Surprising Characteristics that Make You the Ideal Narcissist Victim

Common characteristics nearly all narcissists seek in a victim

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You’re breaking through the fog.

The narcissistic relationship has ended.

First, you feel so victimized, so betrayed. You struggle to understand, “Why me?”

Later, you shift into a place of anger, followed by empowerment. You are determined to NEVER be a target again.

You want to understand why you were a target, no longer from a victim standpoint, but from a position of strength, of saying, “No more.”

You want the target off your back.

Characteristics that make you attractive to a narcissist

1. Being a person of high value: Look, everyone has value. It’s true. But a narcissist will find you highly valuable if you’re physically attractive, successful, wealthy, connected, and/or highly educated. The narcissist is looking to you to elevate their status — simply by being with you.
2. Honest: Those who are truthful, who put honesty as top priority, assume everyone is truthful. They don’t notice red flags nearly as quickly as someone who deceives others for personal gain — which is great for…